A Year of Great Dates

February

a year of great dates

Great marriages don’t happen by accident—they happen on purpose, when we cultivate communication with our spouse. It’s about listening, understanding, and showing they matter. Consistent effort in these moments fuels your marriage and keeps it strong and growing.

As you begin your time together, take five minutes to listen to this short and helpful podcast.

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Then read through this month's options and choose a date to enjoy with your spouse!

February Date Night Ideas

This date is all about laughter, teamwork, and making memories. Plus, even if the food isn’t perfect, the fun you’ll have is totally worth it!

The Idea: You and your partner team up to cook a delicious dinner, but here’s the twist: each of you can only use one hand!

Setup:

  1. Choose a recipe that’s a little challenging but not impossible—like homemade pasta, pizza, or sushi rolls.
  2. Lay out all the ingredients and utensils before you begin so you’re not scrambling.
  3. Tie one arm behind your back (a scarf, ribbon, or band works great) or put one hand in your pocket to keep things fair.

Rules:

  • No switching hands—commit to your chosen hand for the whole session.
  • You must work together for any two-handed tasks, like rolling dough or stirring a pot.
  • Bonus rule: If someone breaks the one-hand rule, they must take a silly dare (like singing while they chop or wearing a goofy hat for the rest of the night).

Why It’s Fun:

  • It’ll turn into a comedy act when one of you tries to crack an egg one-handed or hold a slippery veggie.
  • You’ll learn to communicate and cooperate as a team.
  • The meal will feel extra rewarding since you worked hard for it!

Wrap It Up:

Plate your masterpiece and enjoy it together! Then talk through the conversation starters.

The Idea: Turn 10 minutes of playing Heads Up into a mini competition filled with laughs, snacks, and some lighthearted rivalry.

Setup:

  1. Grab your phone and open the Heads Up app (or download it if you don’t have it).
  2. Choose categories you’ll both enjoy, like movies, accents, animals, or pop culture.
  3. Set a timer for 10 minutes for multiple rounds of gameplay.

How to Play:

  1. Take turns holding the phone on your forehead while your partner gives clues. No cheating—if you peek, you lose a point!
  2. To make it extra fun, add silly twists like:
    • Impressions Only: You can only act out the clue (no words allowed).
    • Three-Word Rule: Clues can only be three words long.

The Stakes: To keep it exciting, make a friendly wager. For example:

  • The winner chooses a movie to watch or the music for the rest of the night.
  • Loser makes or goes out to buy the snacks (bonus points if they try to guess your favorite).

Why It’s Fun:

  • It’s quick, competitive, and guaranteed to make you laugh out loud.
  • You’ll learn how creative—or hilariously bad—each of you is at guessing or acting.

Wrap It Up: After the game, keep the momentum going by snacking on your reward as you talk through the conversation starters.

The Idea: Add a playful twist to your dinner date by giving each other random, silly phrases that you have to sneak into a conversation with your server or cashier. The challenge? Make it sound natural and avoid getting caught!

Setup:

Each of you comes up with a funny or quirky phrase and gives it to the other person. Examples:

    • “I’ve always wondered if penguins have accents.”
    • “Do you think UFOs stop for gas?”
    • “I have a strong opinion about broccoli, and I’m not afraid to share it.”

The Rules:

  1. When you arrive at the restaurant, the goal is to casually work your given phrase into a conversation with your server or cashier without laughing or giving it away.
  2. You only have until the bill arrives to use your phrase—so no procrastinating!
  3. Bonus points if the server responds with something funny or doesn’t realize anything strange is happening.

The Twist: If one of you fails to work the phrase in naturally, there’s a playful consequence! For example:

  • The loser has to ask your server if they have an “imaginary” dessert menu.
  • They must serenade the winner with a funny love song in the car on the way home.

Why It’s Fun:

  • You’ll both be laughing (or cringing) as you watch each other try to act casual while dropping the weirdest lines.
  • It adds an unexpected element to your night out and makes a typical dinner feel like an inside joke.
  • It’s the perfect way to make memories that you’ll laugh about long after.

Wrap It Up: After the meal, debrief and share how hard it was to use your phrases—or laugh about how awkward it got! End the night by talking through the conversation starters

Help you remember your love story and write the next chapter...

 

Remember the Beginning:

  1. What was your first impression of me, and has it changed over time?
  2. If we could relive any one moment from our early days, what would it be and why?

Reflect on the Journey:

  1. What's something you admire about how we’ve grown as a couple?
  2. What’s a small, everyday thing I do that makes you feel loved?

Write the Next Chapter:

  1. What’s something new you’d like us to try as a couple this year?
  2. If we wrote a book about our love story, what would the title be? What would the next chapter be called?

Bonus Tip: Write your answers in a journal to document these reflections and dreams together. It’s a beautiful way to track your progress and see where you’re headed!